Some men think they are so clever; they will do anything to get it for free.
As I sit here and reflect back on the good ol days chatting with friends I hear stories about how their relationships ended in disaster and how they are lucky enough to be with good men they are with now.
Player move 1: He will take you out to a nice restaurant and order a pretty good meal that cost, well a lot to try to prove he got money, he got a good job. Then he will go to the bathroom, break a glass or something small and without you noticing it or the waiter, he will put it in his food, the broken glass and when they come back to your table to check on you, he says, there is glass in my food and I almost ate it.
Naturally, the manager comes to inspect the situation and says we will cover your bill and have a free desert on the house.
Astonishing, I never saw that one coming! So we leave and like always, we go and have sex. That’s two for him, free food and free sex.
Player move 2: He will take out to a place of your choice, dinner, movie or wherever, ya’ll eat, order your drinks and when it comes time to pay he tells you his check was short this week can you pay for it this time and next time he will pay.
Player move 3: He will come over to your house at night and after he gets some, he tells you he has to leave early because he has to work early the next day or pickup his co-worker. Lies, he cannot stay out past ten o’clock because his wife is calling, she is pissed and looking for him.
Player move 4: He always keeps his phone face down on the table, so you cannot see who’s calling him. That Part!
Player move 5: He has to always take calls in the next room; he can never answer the phone in front of you. It’s not a business call or a work call, lies!
Player move 6: Days, weeks, even months go by before you see him or talk to him again, why? Because he is spending quality time with his wife or girlfriend. He probably has kids!
Player move 7: He cries when he is telling you stories about how horrible his ex girlfriend did him, that’s a classic move, he wants your booty after dinner as comfort.
Player move 8: He ain’t never got money when y’all are together, that’s because his wife or girlfriend is spending it all on bills. He says he had to pay bills, right, he told you.
Player move 9: Just because a man buys you flowers doesn’t mean he loves you, he is apologizing in some form for something. Especially if there isn’t a holiday approaching or your birthday.
Player move 10: He accuses you of cheating, that’s because he is trying to psychologically cover up for his wrong-doing making you feel guilty about doing something.
Player move 11: He says he beats you because he loves you; he does that to you because you let him! He is mentally controlling you. He really feels insecure about himself, because you are very beautiful and weak minded. If a man controls the mind, he controls the body!
Player move 12: A man knows another man is after his woman, therefore, he belittles you, drags down your self-esteem & you are too depressed to see this, and you become overweight & unattractive that’s just to keep another man from looking at you. He doesn’t take you anywhere or spend any time with you, just keep you under lock & key, pregnant & barefooted; under his control.
FYI: A lot of men, not all, are intimidated by a woman who is making her own money, why? Because she doesn’t need him & will not tolerate his crap; an independent woman is strong-willed, strong-minded & will let you know she can do better!
Author,
Gigi King 10/18/2016
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